Mornings are powerful. They set the tone for the rest of the day. But in South India — and many other parts of the world — there’s a common belief that who or what you see first thing in the morning can influence how your day unfolds.
Ever heard someone say, "Oh no, I saw that person with a broom — my whole day is ruined"? Or "A cat crossed my path, now something bad will happen"?
These beliefs are everywhere. My own father used to feel irritated seeing a particular neighbor standing with a broom every morning as he left for work, convinced it affected his day negatively.
But what if I told you that the first thing you see in the morning doesn’t decide your day — you do?
Why We Feel This Way
In a crowded country like India, it's nearly impossible to avoid seeing people, animals, or random things on the way out. Most appearances are completely unintentional. Yet, in rare cases — maybe 5% — some people might intentionally show up out of jealousy or negativity.
The truth? It doesn’t matter why they’re there. What matters is how you choose to respond.
Flip the Script: Choose Positivity First
When you face one of these “unlucky encounters” in the morning, two thoughts will spark in your mind — one negative, one positive. The key is to consciously choose the positive one. Here’s how:
- Smile. A simple smile, even when you don’t feel like it, can shift your mindset instantly.
- Quick, light conversation. A quick “Hi,” “Good morning,” or “See you!” works wonders. The trick? Don’t expect a response. The ball’s in their court now — you’ve done your part to spread positivity.
✅ Best case: If they weren’t trying to irritate you, they’ll likely respond positively — and tomorrow, they might even greet you first!
Dealing with the 5% Who Intend Negativity
Some people may deliberately show up to mess with your mind. Don’t worry — I’ve got tricks for them too:
- Round One: Confuse them with kindness.
Your positivity might irritate them at first, but many will end up avoiding you — leaving you free of their bad energy. Others might surprise you by transforming into positive forces themselves. Sometimes, they’ll start greeting you first! - Round Two: Go a step further.
For those still persisting with negativity, step up your positivity game: ask about their family’s well-being or share a small treat once a week. Most people can’t hold on to hate when you meet them with genuine kindness. - Round Three: The final push.
If someone still clings to negativity — keep going. The game is simple: stay rooted in positivity. Let them fight with their negativity while you hold your ground. In the end, they’ll either give up or change.
The Ultimate Takeaway: You Own Your Day
The next time you step out and see someone you believe is an “unlucky sign” — stop. Take a breath, smile, and remember: they don’t decide your day — you do.
Positivity is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it gets. And before you know it, you’ll be the one people hope to see first thing in the morning — because you’ll radiate the kind of energy that sets the day right.
So, are you ready to win your mornings? It’s time to flip the script and turn superstitions into strength. Your day starts with you.
